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SwimHotshot
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30 days of no smex

so far so good

 

well almost 30 i think

 

 

kind of wondering what stevie poo is doing

 

how the celibracy thing is working out

 

question on my mind: can i do this forever?

 

epiphanies so far: beginning to realize men like sex but want companionship more - because people as a whole, men and women,  want companionship

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NaBraniel
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Re: 30 days of no smex

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I have a cat for both.
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NaBraniel wrote:
I have a cat for both.


meh.. as far as companionship goes.. cats are just as bad as military hotties... its all about THEM, you know?

 

 

they dont really truly like or care about you pass what you can do for THEM

 

:smileyvery-happy:

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This is the perfect time for me to give Stevie Poo his new nickname........He hath been dubbed, Booglethong

I still think Mariah Carey is hot.

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stawp renaming the hotties!!

 

and babbling, stop kudoing it!

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Pfft, 30 days is something major?

I can do 30 days without trying.
Then again, my sex life is rather sparse to begin with. :smileyvery-happy:
Let's see what happens when we take away the puppy.

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Is it possible for a person to do it forever? Yes.

 

Can YOU do it forever? No. You like making bad decisions too much.

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MysticJhn wrote:
Pfft, 30 days is something major?

I can do 30 days without trying.
Then again, my sex life is rather sparse to begin with. :smileyvery-happy:

mine as well actually

 

i just looked at the calendar and realized it been a month and that i dont even feel like attempting it.

 

now that i think about it.. these last few months its only happened because of the other person - not me          

cant remember the last time i initated it .. which is strange.. for i am a huge promoter of anything sex and think ithere should be more


:smileyhappy:


 

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PenguinBoss wrote:

Is it possible for a person to do it forever? Yes.

 

Can YOU do it forever? No. You like making bad decisions too much.



in this mood i wouldnt do it.. unless i ran into johnny depp or orlando bloom late at nite ... at walmart... *saves the rest of this thought for later*

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lol, I'd have no problem initiating it.

But I'd look at a year where I was getting laid once every 30 days as a good year. :smileyvery-happy:
Let's see what happens when we take away the puppy.

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Security is pretty important too, I don't know if you classify that in the same category as companionship or not.

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

Security is pretty important too, I don't know if you classify that in the same category as companionship or not.



what do u mean exacly?

 

i think the only sense of security a woman can have is a false one

 

many times a woman has been married for 60 years or whatever, then BAM, someone younger and (ew gross, hes old enough to be your dad - type) comes along, ya know?

 

the benefit of being a man, i guess. you can feel more secure once u put a ring on it, usually - especially if u keep tapping it right

:smileyvery-happy:

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Security as in, even if your wife or husband of 60 years is interested in another person, you can still count on him or her to help you out of a tight spot, or give a shoulder to cry on/ emotional support, financial support.

 

Even if the relationship isn't boyfriend girlfriend or husband wife it's still nice to know you have a loyal friend you can turn to.

 

I believe marriage drives a wedge in between that frame of mind because the couple is bound together legally and when one side feels jealous or screwed over the court system and other means are used to get revenge.

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i just dont see how people trust each other anymore


*Shrug*

 

but i guess my detachment always makes guys  distrust me.. and the first thing they do because of it is try to betray me

 

but thats just not in relationships.. no one can be trusted. not even family. you can only rely on #1

 

 

again, even in this , men come out on top

especially if you are a man who makes good money and u have a stay at home wife. thats security because she would completely rely on you for everything

 

but then again, u have a point, because if the man messes up or wants a divorce, ex stay at home wifey gets alimony

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Knowledge is available to all, with knowledge the only thing men have going for them is brute strength, but that can be overcome with knowledge being applied properly.

 

 

Are you a Taurus?

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uhh.. knowledge?

 

fail to see a connection to what we are talking about

 

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:smileyvery-happy:

 

 

 

 

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I took your post as if you felt inferior to men, so I mentioned knowledge evens the playing field.

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You probably could do it forever. It's called self control and not being a wh0re.

Just stop being a wh0re. You seem to be doing well so far.

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Re: 30 days of no smex

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I thought you went a full year that one time.






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naraku361 wrote:
I thought you went a full year that one time.






:smileyindifferent:


that was a year of just being with military hottie twice... and i was pregnant.. .and doctor ordered not to bang :smileyvery-happy:

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

I took your post as if you felt inferior to men, so I mentioned knowledge evens the playing field.



oh i see

 

but things like child birth, motherhood, etc.. makes it more steep again

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I can't begin to say I understand when it comes to women, motherhood and childbirth.

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

I can't begin to say I understand when it comes to women, motherhood and childbirth.



it just makes women that much more dependent on a man - if u let it

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fugglesss wrote:

that was a year of just being with military hottie twice... and i was pregnant.. .and doctor ordered not to bang :smileyvery-happy:



You know, there's no chance of poking the baby in the head right? Why did he tell you, you couldn't have sex while pregnant? Just curious what facetious reason they gave you.

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