Babbling

[valiente16]

I have to ask straight.bi and gay alike to answer this because maybe I have a serious lack of understanding. What is up with gay men putting up ads for NON gay men? Preferrably ones who are married or in a relationship with a woman? There are tons of other openly gay guys out there...why not go for THEM? I would ask my gay male friends but they are unavailable right now..and maybe one of you can explain it to me anyway. GO!

[Tempty_McHotstuff]

i think they find it as a rush.

idk.

i definitely have an attraction to some straight girls.

[valiente16]

Maybe..but that's just jacked up to potentially break up a home.

[little_girl_lost]

for the same reason women like the bad boys, they think they can change 'em

[westpark]

Asternus wants what asternus can't have.

[Tempty_McHotstuff]

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valiente16 wrote:
Maybe..but that's just jacked up to potentially break up a home.

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i agree.

just like they are wrong for seeking out men in relationships, so are the men in relationships seeking out gay men for relations.

[valiente16]

good enough answer

[valiente16]

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westpark wrote:

Asternus wants what asternus can't have.

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this has nothing to do with him at all.I was doing my semi-weekly trolling of CL ads and they are just all over the effing place..and I just wonder why. There are yummy gay guys out there.
Would link...but yeah..you know what would happen.

[PiginthecityBlue]

Probably after years with the same harping unhappy woman the gays will think straight men are used to getting fuuuuuudgeed in the ass.

[valiente16]

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

Probably after years with the same harping unhappy woman the gays will think straight men are used to getting fuuuuuudgeed in the ass.

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I laughed....and am now ashamed for doing so....a little bit.

[valiente16]

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Tempty_McHotstuff wrote:

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valiente16 wrote:
Maybe..but that's just jacked up to potentially break up a home.

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i agree.

just like they are wrong for seeking out men in relationships, so are the men in relationships seeking out gay men for relations.

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Indeed sista...indeed.

[PiginthecityBlue]

It may be the case, maybe they hope the husband is experimental and daring enough to try it after being with the same dull woman for so long.

maybe the guy think to himself, "hey, why not huh? I can close my eyes and think of a woman.. I just need to ignore the ass hairs"

[valiente16]

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

It may be the case, maybe they hope the husband is experimental and daring enough to try it after being with the same dull woman for so long.

maybe the guy think to himself, "hey, why not huh? I can close my eyes and think of a woman.. I just need to ignore the ass hairs"

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please....no more.....*chest hurting*

[Chappi_The_Rabbit]

There's a thrill to it, like it could be a "forbidden love" kick where one could come across a straight guy that comes to realize they like men but have to suppress it due to family problems, like a sorta Romeo and Jules. Either that or the argument that all the hot guys like women and they hope to bag a hot guy who happens to have a secret love for guys that only recently awakened.

I guess people have their own reasons for what their type is and I don't seek out men/women (I'm more of a "get to know someone I hang out with til we go one step further" kinda guy), so it's probably not my place to give an explanation based on observations on other NSFW boards. 

[PiginthecityBlue]

What? I'm not trying to make you laugh, I'm just talking.

It may be as simple as the idea of sleeping with a married man, maybe it gets some guys off.

[valiente16]

Either way it came out funny as hell but yeah I see what you are saying..but still...why not just admit you are bi instead of being on the low? Some women dig that.

[PiginthecityBlue]

I was hit on by a guy at carls jr last week, he went out of his way to give me my milkshake too. If I would have put out the bi or gay vibe he probably would have paid for it. so sometimes it's best to put pride aside and just ride-  go with it.

of course if I put out the vibe he probably would have seductively licked the cream off the cherry before handing me the shake, then I wouldn't be able to eat bananas the same. so not always a silver lining.

[valiente16]

lolololol...so your milkshake does bring all the boys to the yard?

[westpark]

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valiente16 wrote:

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westpark wrote:

Asternus wants what asternus can't have.

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this has nothing to do with him at all.I was doing my semi-weekly trolling of CL ads and they are just all over the effing place..and I just wonder why. There are yummy gay guys out there.
Would link...but yeah..you know what would happen.

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He made a thread in ib the other day with a title like 'married guy with a kid......yes or no?'

I know what you mean tho.

Maybe....asternuses(plural) wants what theys cantz havs?

[PiginthecityBlue]

I was with a friend and he orders, and the dude barley looks at him and when I talked he was all nice to serve, when it was ready I was standing next to my friend and the guy brings it to us, my friend holds out his hands ready to carry, and he ignores him (the place wasn't crowded at all) hands it to me and eyes me creepy like. Not one word spoken to my friend, the guy barley looked his way.

A feminine hand gesture to his chest while he was shy-nervous smiling.

Three guesses on what my friend thought the whipped cream really was.

[Llama_Fly_Aardvark]

a straught married gay man might seek another in his position, possibly as an effective cover but also possibly because they want someone who can relate and wont judge them for being a married closet gay. Also, lots of people on craigslist are generally messed up and/or retarded.

[westpark]

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

Probably after years with the same harping unhappy woman the gays will think straight men are used to getting fuuuuuudgeed in the ass.

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Motherfuuuuuudgeer -- that's a good one.

There's this guy I work with Jeremy who has this fat redneck b-tch of a wife. And I'm not saying that lightly & I mean nobody any offense but this woman has spoiled rotten hillbilly princess written all over her. Domineers conversations when we have parties, won't shut up EVER, has the same stupid ass jokes every time that are like almost 8th grade in nature & really time. She cackles almost this bad:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fHVGYEZOk0A

& always says "I'm a mean b-tch." Ok we get it but w/e.

Anyway, this dude Jeremy says he's 'pu--ywhipped but loves it' & loves bragging about his wife uses the strap-on 'on' him. So yeah.

That kinda #### does exist.

[westpark]

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

It may be the case, maybe they hope the husband is experimental and daring enough to try it after being with the same dull woman for so long.

maybe the guy think to himself, "hey, why not huh? I can close my eyes and think of a woman.. I just need to ignore the ass hairs"

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Bruh -- go get a career in stand up, I'd pay to see it.

[westpark]

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valiente16 wrote:
lolololol...so your milkshake does bring all the boys to the yard?

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fuuuuuudgein stop. Now.....

[westpark]

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PiginthecityBlue wrote:

I was with a friend and he orders, and the dude barley looks at him and when I talked he was all nice to serve, when it was ready I was standing next to my friend and the guy brings it to us, my friend holds out his hands ready to carry, and he ignores him (the place wasn't crowded at all) hands it to me and eyes me creepy like. Not one word spoken to my friend, the guy barley looked his way.

A feminine hand gesture to his chest while he was shy-nervous smiling.

Three guesses on what my friend thought the whipped cream really was.

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STOP STOP STOP!!

I'M PISSING MYSELF!!