I desire a female with whom I share political views, as well as at least a close approximation of religious views (or lack thereof). Someone who is smart, someone with whom I could cuddle while watching jeopardy. Someone who understands my sense of humor and knows that when I insult myself I'm not fishing for compliments but expecting a laugh. Someone with similar tastes in music and movies. Someone who is open minded, who enjoys freaky, mildly to highly disturbing pornography. Someone who appreciates beauty and sees art in everything. Someone who tokes the occasional herb.
Someone who probably doesn't exist.
Like I said, I'm in no position to be picky.
crapshot2 wrote:he even told me of one os his non gay friends married a post op.
how would you take that, you have been going out with the women for years and and the eve of asking her to marry you, she admits.
that would take some soul searching
1) I don't think his gay (I assume male) friends would be marrying a woman. If they're post-op, they're a woman in every way that counts besides bearing children. They're not gay and it's not like they just did it for a lark, like going drag for a weekend.
2) the soul searching would be appropriate if they (generic they) waited until you (generic you) proposed to tell you. That demonstrates such a lack of trust that you would have to wonder what the relationship was actually built on. It also suggests you're jumping the gun, wanting to marry someone you apparently knew nothing about. At any rate, I (hypothetical I) would definitely postpone until I felt there was a more solid foundation on which to build a life together.
Mostly what I'm reading in this thread is "unmarryable" rather than "undateable." Most of the things listed (I'm guilty too) you wouldn't even know until you'd dated them for awhile. 
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