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Saddy
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it's official! i am insane

so, after the smokey and queso debacle, me and blue are allowing people to stay with us again. blue and i are still arguing about letting them keep their cat and i have a feeling it's going to get ugly. i like the cat and don't want to see it back in a shelter, he doesn't care. it's not hat he's an animal hater, he isn't cruel to them or anything. he just... doesn't love them the way i do. anyways, i just can't let my nephew and his girlfriend be out on the street. especially since she's pregnant. i just can't. so yea, more people living with us. *sigh* it was nice having my house to myself for a few weeks. i just wanna run away. so, babbling, if i disappear, you'll know why. i either lost it and went on a killing spree or i ran away and changed my name. i'm gonna go over there and crawl into the fetal position and rock myself back to sleep. /blog post
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Saddy, times are tough.

I could use a place to crash.

We're sixteenth cousins afterall.

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Saddy
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do you have a job? cause you gotta pay rent.
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Actually I planned on sitting around all day playing guitar and smoking cigarettes.

With meals brought to me at six hour intervals.
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Saddy
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no smoking here. even outside. and you can play guitar when you come home from work. the bills aren't gonna pay themselves!
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We could have had something beautiful.

:smileysad:
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Saddy
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sorry! i still love you
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Ugh, I have always found you never know how much you can despise someone till they move in your house.
Had a best friend who killed himself two years ago this summer I let stay with me because he was on the street, wound up being a nightmare.

Good luck Saddy, that's all I can give you.

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Saddy
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i know it's gonna be a nightmare. he stayed with us before and it ended badly. the only reason we even entertained the idea is because of his girlfriend. she's incredibly sweet and she's pregnant. she just lost her job because her boss is a dicktruck, so they had to move out of their condo. he works, but he doesn't make much. without her paycheck, they can't afford the condo and since they have crazy rules, they had to move yesterday. they're coming here today and we're gonna tell them they can stay but there are gonna be a ####load of rules. and they gotta be in their own place before summer is over. baby is due in september and i'm sorry but i cannot have an infant here. i'll end up killing myself. i love my kids but if i hadn't had them when i was young, they probably wouldn't be here. my patience is not what it used to be.
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No matter what happens, you could never leave us.
Never.
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Saddy
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well if i end up in jail or an asylum, i don't think they'll let me post here. so, yea. and i'm not even kidding. i wish i was though.
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Ugh....you are too nice but I get why you are doing it. Also..they need to settle a little lower and get a reg apt..times are hard and a place is a place.

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So when can we expect the next mouth to feed?
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Satoh
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I dunno, if it were me and I know this is going to sound heartless but pregnant or not their problem is theirs alone.

But since you're going to let them stay instead of being a sh!tload of rules how about making a definite "GTFO" date. Gives them a goal to work for and an agreed upon departure date.
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My brother has trouble saying no because he doesn't think through his decisions. I have difficulty saying yes because rarly am I disappointed by how things are likely to turn out.

But I assume they are staying with you because the shelter and outreach programs in the area are...lacking or insufficient?
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Ur visitors would post everything you had to say.
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Satoh wrote:
I dunno, if it were me and I know this is going to sound heartless but pregnant or not their problem is theirs alone.

But since you're going to let them stay instead of being a sh!tload of rules how about making a definite "GTFO" date. Gives them a goal to work for and an agreed upon departure date.


i really don't want them to stay. i already have one extra person living here. i don't want two more. but i just can't let them be out on the street. i wish i could but i really can't. i couldn't sleep at night if i did that .
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Sieg67
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Do these people at least have a job and/or a car?
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Saddy
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yea. my nephew has a job. they both have cars. she is gonna be on unemployment until she finds a new job.
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Saddy wrote:
well if i end up in jail or an asylum, i don't think they'll let me post here. so, yea. and i'm not even kidding. i wish i was though.

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Saddy wrote:

Satoh wrote:
I dunno, if it were me and I know this is going to sound heartless but pregnant or not their problem is theirs alone.

But since you're going to let them stay instead of being a sh!tload of rules how about making a definite "GTFO" date. Gives them a goal to work for and an agreed upon departure date.


i really don't want them to stay. i already have one extra person living here. i don't want two more. but i just can't let them be out on the street. i wish i could but i really can't. i couldn't sleep at night if i did that .

In situations like this, at least for me, if you don't declare a "get out date" the person is naturally going to assume that the invite is indefinite. Once there's a clear understanding that they have to be out at a certain date it's usually enough for them to get a fire under their ass and do something about  thier own situation for themselves. In the smokey/queso situation I think since there was no timeline for getting out they were going to get comfotable and assume their place is in your home. 

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Maybe it's just me, but it sure seems like you're letting them stay for the wrong reason. Maybe guilt? You should never feel guilty about not opening your home to someone if you feel like you aren't in a position to let them in. Charity is a wonderful thing, but it should never come at the cost of your well being.
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this does not make you crazy, this makes you a incredibly nice human being. if you wouldn't have let them stay with you i would have thought less of you

How I loathe thee-
Oh, how I loathe thee!
With thy mesmerizing eyes
And thy wicked lips
Which doth hold me captive;
Captivated, devastated
By thy sweet, deceit-filled promises
And by thy eyes
Thy treacherous, lecherous eyes
Which doth pierce my heart
To depths previously unknown
And sear my soul
With passion burning bright
Burning, yearning, undeserving
What thou doth do to me
Thy lightest touch doth linger
Ever after on my skin;
Though I rub, scrape and scrub
Never am I clean again
Nor ever am I free again
Of thy gaze, thy touch, thy kiss
Imprinted on my memory
Forever and eternity
And so I tell thee
For whom I am but a plaything
Worth nothing more
An amusement for thee
To love, then leave
With nary a second thought
And never a backward glance
How I loathe thee-
Oh, how I loathe thee!
The only one I ever loved...


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Also it was sweet of you guys to let them stay but you are not a shelter. Also...WHY does everyone always come to you all? Is there NO ONE ELSE?

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Satoh
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One more thing, if you let this girl stay until she's given birth then you're stuck with them indefinitely. I'd make it a point that they have to be out way before she drops.
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