Babbling

[scoobdog]

That sounds like an extremely dangerous situation. She would likely be better served by going to a battered women's shelter.

Not to cause any undue panic, but....

Recently, there was a situation in Hollywood where an ex-boyfriend followed this woman to a house with a bunch of other roommates. He ended up shooting the gf, a roommate (who was newlywed) and another guy before shooting himself and setting the place and himself on fire. It's one of the worst instances of domestic violence I've seen in quite some time.  Here's the link.

[Saddy]

she likes this stuff though. she has no desire to be rid of him. she likes the drama. i know how dangerous the situation is, i imagine she does as well. the only conclusion i can come to is she doesn't care.

[770312]

Such is the fate of the good hearted. Giving so much that you lose yourself in the process.

[valiente16]

Eff all that, if she wants to get killed or her ass beat let it be AWAY from you all.

[MafiaFlood]

Oh, Ithought this was going about your medical condition, the pain thing.

[Saddy]

yea. that's what i said, buuuuuuuuuuut blue kinda said yea without even thinking about it. she called him while he was driving and he just kinda blurted out, "ok" . i told him it's ok to tell her that he didn't mean to say it was ok for her to stay, but he's a stubborn man.

[Saddy]

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MafiaFlood wrote:
Oh, Ithought this was going about your medical condition, the pain thing.

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! ha! i wish.

[valiente16]

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Saddy wrote:
yea. that's what i said, buuuuuuuuuuut blue kinda said yea without even thinking about it. she called him while he was driving and he just kinda blurted out, "ok" . i told him it's ok to tell her that he didn't mean to say it was ok for her to stay, but he's a stubborn man.

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You all should assume different names...paint Blue white, you and the kids assume another race  and  when they come pretend to be other people. Sounds dumb I  know...but it's all I got right now. 

[Shadowstaarr]

We already knew you were insane.

[Saddy]

i keep saying that i'm gonna run away and change my name. if this crap keeps up, i am really gonna do it.

[Saddy]

thanks. i can always count on you to say the right thing, shadow.

[Shadowstaarr]

The hell you can't! If there's one thing I do well, it's failing to meet expectations.

[Saddy]

stop lying! i can count on you to say the right thing damnit and there is nothing you can say that will make me think otherwise!

[Snowy1]

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Saddy wrote:
do you have a job? cause you gotta pay rent.

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...what region of the country did you guy say you were in?
and is your cousin and his girlfriend attractive? ...no, I meant, are they "healthy"? yep...that question will work. Because, if they aren't...could work .

*Readies gypsy costume*

[Saddy]

!

[Snowy1]

and if I come up short on rent on a blue moon...are you good at poker?

[scoobdog]

That's f****d. I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

I'm just going to go back to worrying.

[KnightStar]

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Saddy wrote:

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KnightStar wrote:

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Saddy wrote:
well, turns out they didn't stay long. they left yesterday. apparently his mom wanted them to stay. ya know, AFTER me and blue let them stay here. before that she didn't want them there. ugh. whatever. i have my house back. well, i did. now apparently my sister in law is having issues with her estranged husband and she wants to stay here for a few days. now, letting my nephew stay here was one thing. there was drama, but that was because he's young and stupid and thinks he knows everything. this is totally different. her husband is dangerous. i mean like, carries a gun that he sleeps with under his pillow at night kinda dangerous. the kinda dangerous that would wake up in the middle of the night, wake up my sister in law and say things like, "i could kill you right now and no one would hear a thing". and blue is letting this drama into our house. i get that it's his sister and this dude supposedly doesn't know where we live, but if he really wants to find out, i'm sure it wouldn't be too difficult. this worries me. a lot. i hope she ends up not coming, like last time. i really don't want this #### in my house.

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Um saddy, I know you and Blue are nice as can be, but do you want your sister in law there with her man issues?

That guy sounds like the type that would crawl ten miles in broken glas just to stalk her right to your house.

I'm not so sure that your family needs to be put in danger, that man sounds like crazy just waiting to be let loose upon the world.

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that's exactly the type of person he is. he's bat#### insane. this is over a cable bill by the way. she moved out months ago but she was still paying the cable bill. she didn't pay it this month cause they cut her hours again. neither did he cause he expected her to do it. he called her and asked her to pay it. she said she couldn't. he basically told her to pay it or else things are going to get ugly. so yea, i don't want this crap in my house. we told her to take out a restraining order. she won't though cause that means that the drama will have to end and she ain't having that. she loves it. i don't. she can keep that #### right the fuuuuuudge where she is now. which is still fuuuuuudgeed up. she's living with her parents and her younger sister and her two young kids. this girl has no concern for anyone.

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I agree with you Saddy, even extended family isn't worth endangering yours for, she needs to cut the sh!t before he stuffs her in a duffle bag and throws her in a river.

No really, she needs to get a restraining order, for what good they are and let the police handle the psycho piece of shat, but if she likes the drama it is only going to end in one of two places for her.

A grave, or hospital.

[GroovyAtlas]

Saddy: "Urge to kill. RISING."

[Saddy]

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scoobdog wrote:
That's f****d. I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

I'm just going to go back to worrying.

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i'll be worrying with you. she is the one person i really don't want here. i hope she makes up with him or whatever the hell it is they do so i don't have to deal with anymore drama. my hair stopped growing again damnit!