05-30-2012 10:19 PM
My husband goes to work early in the mornings and comes home right around bed time, eats, and falls asleep.
He tells me he feels beaten up everyday. I try to make everything perfect so he can relax. All he wants to do is lay in bed with the tv on.
Just now I tried to go in there and cuddle up next to him. He acts almost put off by this. Oh who the hell am I kidding he "is" putt off by this.
He can be such a nice guy but since he started working for his cousin he's been a completely different person all around. I know he's not happy with his job... but lately it's like he's not happy with me.
I told him "I miss him"
He said "Miss me on a day that I don't have to work like saturday."
But I'm so busy with our daughter on the weekends its not possible. I make myself available every night for him... for whatever he wants to do. I feel like I'm his roomate rather then his wife.
05-30-2012 10:30 PM - edited 05-30-2012 10:31 PM
Im single so maybe my 2 cents are moot.
But im sure the relationship reservoir as i've heard it being called. That you 2 have, has enough energy to get you 2 through it.
When the good times come back it'll get filled up again for the bad times. No simple answer i can give and i probably shouldn't have said anything but thats all i got.
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05-30-2012 10:58 PM
Try to talk to him about it. Approach it in a sensitive manner, but tell him you noticed he's been unhappy lately and ask why.
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05-31-2012 12:36 AM
Could he be depressed? You say he's not happy working for his cousin. Withdrawal is a pretty common coping mechanism.
If that is the case, I don't know what advice I could give you, but at least you'd know what you're dealing with.
I hope I didn't alarm you by bringing this up.
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05-31-2012 05:51 PM
Exactly this. Get rid of the scamp for a couple days and spend not-around-other-people time with your husband. It doesn't matter if it's at home doing nothing but goofing off - the point is the two of you spend time with just each other.
There's lots of things you can do when your broke. You can hide in your house. Tell everyone you are leaving for the weekend and pitch a tent in the back yard. Drive to the lake or river (preferable a secluded area). But the main thing is to get away from other people who could but into your time together. I have a cabin in the woods me and the wife would escape to when we needed time alone.
All it cost was the gas to get there and the food we took with us. The tent in the back yard only works if you have privacy fence.
05-31-2012 06:17 PM
you need to tell him this is bothering you. if you don't it will just get worse until it ends up in a big fight. communication is one of the keys to a good relationship that will last
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