fugglesss wrote:
naraku361 wrote:
fugglesss wrote:and i dont feel "terrible" or any guilt at all.... :-/
Case and point, why you're a terrible person.
You don't have to protect someone else's relationship, but that doesn't mean you should intentionally go out of your way to do things that you know can wreak it.
in what way have i ever gone intentionally out of my way?
stop making things up in your head, dear
also, i knew you couldnt resist
If you know they're taken and not in an open relationship, doing much of anything with them is no different from going out of your way to put their relationship at risk.
It's not your immediate intention to ruin their marriage. You're seeking immediate self gratification. The problem is you also know fully that if his wife finds out, they're over. It isn't any better than going out of your way to do it.
naraku361 wrote:
fugglesss wrote:
naraku361 wrote:
fugglesss wrote:and i dont feel "terrible" or any guilt at all.... :-/
Case and point, why you're a terrible person.
You don't have to protect someone else's relationship, but that doesn't mean you should intentionally go out of your way to do things that you know can wreak it.
in what way have i ever gone intentionally out of my way?
stop making things up in your head, dear
also, i knew you couldnt resist
If you know they're taken and not in an open relationship, doing much of anything with them is no different from going out of your way to put their relationship at risk.
It's not your immediate intention to ruin their marriage. You're seeking immediate self gratification. The problem is you also know fully that if his wife finds out, they're over. It isn't any better than going out of your way to do it.
theres no going out of my way.. that would mean actively persuing .. even after the guy says no.. then convincing him in some way which has never happened
but guys DO go out of their way.. its their decision theyve made. and face it - truly in the end, i face no detriment
once that decision is made within the confines of the relationship - its made. it has nothing to do with me no matter how much people want to think it does
naraku361 wrote:
That's only because you're not thinking of anyone beyond yourself.
No, it doesn't harm you in any way.
But it has been established that it could hurt the person's significant other.
It isn't about you, so you might want to stop making it out to be.
ok so its all about her and i should care so significantly about someone else, whom i dont know and might never met, but should alter my actions in thought of them anyway just because it may or may not be of benefit to them?
ok, gotcha.. even though that makes no goddamn sense whatsoever
fugglesss wrote:
naraku361 wrote:
That's only because you're not thinking of anyone beyond yourself.
No, it doesn't harm you in any way.
But it has been established that it could hurt the person's significant other.
It isn't about you, so you might want to stop making it out to be.ok so its all about her and i should care so significantly about someone else, whom i dont know and might never met, but should alter my actions in thought of them anyway just because it may or may not be of benefit to them?
ok, gotcha.. even though that makes no goddamn sense whatsoever
Before you question the relevence of this post, answer the question. If you don't understand the point after the next couple exchanges, I'll explain:
If you saw someone get hit by a truck. The truck just drives off and the person is clearly alive, but badly injured.
You don't know the person, they look a little on the poor side so helping them might not get you any money, and now that his entire lower body is destroyed, he probably won't be able to put out for a while. There isn't much indication that any real gain would come from doing anything.
Do you help him?
naraku361 wrote:
fugglesss wrote:
naraku361 wrote:
That's only because you're not thinking of anyone beyond yourself.
No, it doesn't harm you in any way.
But it has been established that it could hurt the person's significant other.
It isn't about you, so you might want to stop making it out to be.ok so its all about her and i should care so significantly about someone else, whom i dont know and might never met, but should alter my actions in thought of them anyway just because it may or may not be of benefit to them?
ok, gotcha.. even though that makes no goddamn sense whatsoever
Before you question the relevence of this post, answer the question. If you don't understand the point after the next couple exchanges, I'll explain:
If you saw someone get hit by a truck. The truck just drives off and the person is clearly alive, but badly injured.
You don't know the person, they look a little on the poor side so helping them might not get you any money, and now that his entire lower body is destroyed, he probably won't be able to put out for a while. There isn't much indication that any real gain would come from doing anything.
Do you help him?
nope. i am not trained well enough to help a person so severly injured as being hit by a truck. id call the paramedics.
soo
what's your point?
fugglesss wrote:
Saddy wrote:
you have to be joking...nope.
you seem to be projecting the responsibility of an obviously failing relationship on the actions on an uninvolved outside 3rd party.... so you must be joking about that.
how do you not get that your actions affect other people? i mean, i just don't understand how you fail to get that. i'm not projecting anything. if you have sex with someone who is in a relationship, you share the responsibility for whatever happens as a result. what you do has a very real effect on other people whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. the minute you let some dude who is married, engaged or whatever, stick his peen inside you, you cease to be an uninvolved party. you are now involved in their relationship whether you like it or choose to acknowledge it or not.
fugglesss wrote:
Saddy wrote:
you have to be joking...nope.
you seem to be projecting the responsibility of an obviously failing relationship on the actions on an uninvolved outside 3rd party.... so you must be joking about that.
the minute you willingly engage in sexual acts with someone you know is cheating then you become involved. the moment you act like you aren't at fault or are in no way responsible is the moment you become a terrible person
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