Rants

[poooooooooooooof]

if someones going to cheat on their wife. if its not w/me its going to be w/someone else.

[stilgar]

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poooooooooooooof wrote:
if someones going to cheat on their wife. if its not w/me its going to be w/someone else.

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and? if it is with you then you are now involved and what ever happens is now partly your fault

[Tempty_McHotstuff]

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:
you're responsible for your actions though. if you know that someone is married or in a relationship and you sleep with them or whatever, then you are in fact contributing to the demise, or at the very least, the downward spiral, of that relationship. 

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and i should care because???? 

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yea, i'm pretty sure i said that you don't have to care. guess you missed that part? so yea, you don't have to care. have fun with that whole being a terrible person thing.

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whys it make me a terrible person tho? who am i hurting??

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um, the person that your fuuuuuudge toy is married to. how do you not get that?

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i dont have any married boytoys

one is engaged tho

and in what way am i hurting her? and in what way is HE not hurting her? 

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don't you feel bad for messing around with someone who is engaged? i'm sure the person he's engaged to would be pretty distraught about her fiance sleeping with you.

it's not just you at fault for hurting her, but him, too. if it's any consolation he's more so blameworthy than you because he already made a commitment to someone. he's a dog and hopefully she does in fact find out and kick his buns to the curb.

[foolycooly_girl]

so you have never heard of the word Respect?
Here take a look
Respect [ri-spekt] deference to a right, privilege, privileged position, or someone or something considered to have certain rights or privileges; proper acceptance or courtesy; acknowledgment: (examples) respect for a suspect's right to counsel; to show respect for the flag; respect for the elderly.
apparently you lack that not only to other people's relationships but for yourself also.

....

I am pretty sure it's working out great for you.

[fugglesss]

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poooooooooooooof wrote:

dont hate the player hate the game. i agree w/fugglesss. ur all crazy

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/thread

jjk jk

but yah.. you have to REALLY grasp at straws to blame me or the person taking on my part as having anything to do with the relationship problems of a couple. obviously by the fact that he went outside the relationship does not ultimately determine the end of the relationship. altho it may very well be indicative of the ending, its would only be the cause along with many other factors... 

[fugglesss]

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stilgar wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:
you have to be joking...

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nope. 

you seem to be projecting the responsibility of an obviously failing relationship on the actions on an uninvolved outside 3rd party.... so you must be joking about that.

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the minute you willingly engage in sexual acts with someone you know is cheating then you become involved. the moment you act like you aren't at fault or are in no way responsible is the moment you become a terrible person

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why tho?? WHY? i just dont get it why its my fault that someone else chose to cheat.. i did not make that decision for them and they could just as easily make the same decision without my knowledge.

[fugglesss]

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The_Pirate-King wrote:
The more of your posts I read, the more you sound like a genuine sociopath.

You seem genuinely incapable of caring about other people.

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its not about caring about other people. i obviously care a great deal about the guys i see. its the part where you guys want me to care about a person that i dont know, who most likely wouldnt give a sh*t or care at all about me that makes no sense. 

[fugglesss]

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Tempty_McHotstuff wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:
you're responsible for your actions though. if you know that someone is married or in a relationship and you sleep with them or whatever, then you are in fact contributing to the demise, or at the very least, the downward spiral, of that relationship. 

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and i should care because???? 

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yea, i'm pretty sure i said that you don't have to care. guess you missed that part? so yea, you don't have to care. have fun with that whole being a terrible person thing.

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whys it make me a terrible person tho? who am i hurting??

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um, the person that your fuuuuuudge toy is married to. how do you not get that?

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i dont have any married boytoys

one is engaged tho

and in what way am i hurting her? and in what way is HE not hurting her? 

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don't you feel bad for messing around with someone who is engaged? i'm sure the person he's engaged to would be pretty distraught about her fiance sleeping with you.

it's not just you at fault for hurting her, but him, too. if it's any consolation he's more so blameworthy than you because he already made a commitment to someone. he's a dog and hopefully she does in fact find out and kick his buns to the curb.

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you know tempty, you werent there when i was saying no to him, who i care about very deeply., for almost 7 months

he finally broke me down by saying he was sad he couldnt see me before going to war

but before that, id written him this long drawn out email about how his activities with me could destroy his fiance if she were to find out

you know what he said after months of me writing that email and as soon as his head hit my pillow?

"I can do whatever i want"

O_O

[stilgar]

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fugglesss wrote:

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stilgar wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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Saddy wrote:
you have to be joking...

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nope. 

you seem to be projecting the responsibility of an obviously failing relationship on the actions on an uninvolved outside 3rd party.... so you must be joking about that.

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the minute you willingly engage in sexual acts with someone you know is cheating then you become involved. the moment you act like you aren't at fault or are in no way responsible is the moment you become a terrible person

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why tho?? WHY? i just dont get it why its my fault that someone else chose to cheat.. i did not make that decision for them and they could just as easily make the same decision without my knowledge.

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its your fault that they cheated with you. how could you not get that? its not like this person drugged you. you willingly had sexual contact with someone you knew was involved with someone else. that is why its partly your fault. stop being a terrible person

[fugglesss]

they could just as easily find someone else who WOULD ruin their life or hurt them, which is part of the reason i broke down and saw the engaged guy

but i wasnt trying to protect his fiance's relationship at all - but stop him from messing up his life

*shrug*

it just truly has nothing to do with me.

lets go back to someones car accident scenario. i would only call the paramedics if i knew i were the first person to see the accident.. but other than that, id do what everyone else would do.. drive by while trying to look at the carnage. 

but you guys are trying to make it seem like im the one pulling the steering wheel in the wrong direction when im not even in the car

[stilgar]

this isn't about them being a terrible person, its about you being a terrible person. like i said, once you decide you are going to be sexually involved with someone in a relationship then you are at fault as much as he is. you are the one who made that decision, not him. take responsibility for your actions

[The_Pirate-King]

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fugglesss wrote:

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The_Pirate-King wrote:
The more of your posts I read, the more you sound like a genuine sociopath.

You seem genuinely incapable of caring about other people.

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its not about caring about other people. i obviously care a great deal about the guys i see. its the part where you guys want me to care about a person that i dont know, who most likely wouldnt give a sh*t or care at all about me that makes no sense. 

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caring =/= having sex with.

Also actually caring about people doesn't mean expecting them to do something for you in return.

[fugglesss]

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stilgar wrote:

this isn't about them being a terrible person, its about you being a terrible person. like i said, once you decide you are going to be sexually involved with someone in a relationship then you are at fault as much as he is. you are the one who made that decision, not him. take responsibility for your actions

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exactly what am i responsible for?

[fugglesss]

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The_Pirate-King wrote:

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fugglesss wrote:

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The_Pirate-King wrote:
The more of your posts I read, the more you sound like a genuine sociopath.

You seem genuinely incapable of caring about other people.

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its not about caring about other people. i obviously care a great deal about the guys i see. its the part where you guys want me to care about a person that i dont know, who most likely wouldnt give a sh*t or care at all about me that makes no sense. 

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caring =/= having sex with.

Also actually caring about people doesn't mean expecting them to do something for you in return.

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i dont even know what the heck you are talking about anymore...

[stilgar]

Your own actions. Willingly having sexual contact with someone you know is in a relationship. That makes you just as at fault as him

[Tampon_Fingers]

Why are you even bothering with trying to convince it? It's a troll.

[fugglesss]

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stilgar wrote:
Your own actions. Willingly having sexual contact with someone you know is in a relationship. That makes you just as at fault as him

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at fault for what exactly is what im asking... 

[stilgar]

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fugglesss wrote:

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stilgar wrote:
Your own actions. Willingly having sexual contact with someone you know is in a relationship. That makes you just as at fault as him

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at fault for what exactly is what im asking... 

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at fault for having sex with him. how can you not get that?

[fugglesss]

oh. well ok whatever. . we banged. so what?

[stilgar]

you are a damaged human being

[Purrrrrrr]

"Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's house" (as in spouse, belongs, nor anything that is theirs) Exodus 20:17

I'm not religious, but in all of the bible, those are the only real decrees by God.

This affair hasn't hurt you personally yet, but it will. Depending on the woman he's cheating on, it may physically hurt you. I know if someone were to sleep with my husband knowing he was married, first I'd hurt him, then I'd come after her, consequences be damned. It'd be an episode of "Snapped" to remember.

[fugglesss]

No, I'm right. The rest is a mere matter of your extremely biased unfactual emotion driven personal opinion.


And to the second response: why go after her? What did she do to you? The only reason I could fathom you'd do anything to her would be because of jealously.

[Smoothie-Skittle]

fuggless,you are never right.

i'd go after the woman if she jumps stupid,and because i don't know where she lives.

i do know where the man lives, so he can get it later.

[stilgar]

and what are you right about? that you having sex with some guy who is in a relationship somehow doesn't affect that relationship if the woman doesn't find out about it? face it fuggless, you are fucked in the head. and not in the good way either

[Purrrrrrr]

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fugglesss wrote:


And to the second response: why go after her? What did she do to you? The only reason I could fathom you'd do anything to her would be because of jealously.

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Surely you are not this dense.