The Swim Archive

[gekko_man]

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VashVSGoku wrote:

Why the hell is this thread still open anyway?

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[Poppa_Rocks]

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gekko_man wrote:

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VashVSGoku wrote:

Why the hell is this thread still open anyway?

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Because it wasn't locked.

[Kohikki]

Because you're still doing it, Cid.
You apologized and that's great and everything, but you're still making posts about how people are so mean and nasty.
In fact, the last post you made was a list of examples of how people were nasty to you.
Just go ahead and read This

You can crab at me after you read that if you want.

But it's true.
Basically, you should have just left the thread after you apologized.
Leaving the thread would be a sign that you're truly sorry for it and don't feel the need to defend yourself because you know what you did is wrong.
Because all you're doing right now, from what I see, is looking for pity.
You say you're not but honestly, that's all I'm seeing.

[gekko_man]

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Poppa_Rocks wrote:

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gekko_man wrote:

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VashVSGoku wrote:

Why the hell is this thread still open anyway?

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Because it wasn't locked.

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though it should be......

[Poppa_Rocks]

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gekko_man wrote:

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Poppa_Rocks wrote:

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gekko_man wrote:

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VashVSGoku wrote:

Why the hell is this thread still open anyway?

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Because it wasn't locked.

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though it should be......

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but it's not.

[cidthekittyisfun]

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Kohikki wrote:
Cid.
This is exactly what I'm talking about.
You need to stop.
Stop looking for examples to make people pity you.

You decided to take credit for something that was making people upset.
You cannot deny this.
The opening post says it.
I don't care if "Lol, people who get mad at filters are too serious and need to get a sense of humour" That's not the point.
The point is You took credit for them. You asked people to blame you
Like I said eariler, if you took credit for burning down someone's house, whether or not you did it, the people aren't going to want to give you a hug and take you out for a steak dinner. They're gonna be pissed.

You have to accept that you made a bad choice when you made this thread and stop weaving your little verbal tapestries to make it seem as though everyone who responded to it negatively are a bunch of bullies.

You have to accept that everything that happened in this thread is your fault.
And then get over it.
Because until you do that, there's just going to be more arguments and I'm pretty sure no one wants that.

This is harsh, yes.
But it's also true.
Please think about it.

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wow ok. sooo all those posts i made where i said i admit iw as wrong i take full blame im sorry.. that big apology i made.. all of that, did you like.. not see that?

becasue kohikki, it seems (to me.. im not saying you are) that you are just paying attention to the parts where i say things like that, are you not reading the parts where i AREALDY said im sorry i know i ws wrong, i realize i was flamebaiting, i reaize i hurt you all, i realize my actions, and i realize i get what i desrve..

i mean really kohikki really? because i clearly said that all over the place, after i applogized and calmed down thats all ive been doing, im not playing the innocent card STO SAYING THAT! i mean it. ok? its getting tiring..

i KNOW i did wrong, ALREADY admited that till iw as blue in the freaking face! why is it you all are still going on about stuff i said on the first 2 pages? and stuff i said here and there like "yeah i was flamebaitin but so where they"

look, i did wrong, i admit it, ive BEEN admiting it... ok? so dont go saying "you need to own up to what you said and realized your mistakes" when ive done that, i feel like im wasting my time.. because you and everyone else isnt hearing what ive already said, and instead yor just saying "stop playing the blame game"

go back and reread my posts youll see that ive already said what you said i should say... a whooollle bunch of times, and please do not focuz on the negativity and things you want to focus on..

and kohikki your a nice guy ok? and please dont think im upset, what i said abve and anything ive been saying since ive appologize, has not meant to hurt anyone.. im not flamebaiting, im not making excuses for my actions, ok maybe i am, but ive alwasy admited my wrongdoings..

i just want you and everyone else to realize i already said i was wrong, but nooooo people keep picking up on other stuff ive already appologized and admited i was wrong making it seem i never appoligzed..


why do i even bother with you people, in all honestly, i do feel hated now.. or at least intense anger towards a big group of people.. this is so stupid... everything about it is stupid.. but its ok i deserve it.

dontworry though, none of you will have to worry about me, ill be leaving this place soon enough.. im goig to et a sewing machine today and ill be too busy learning to sew to get myself into edrama and **h4x3d** everyone off.

[tini_tunz]

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cidthekittyisfun wrote:
dontworry though, none of you will have to worry about me, ill be leaving this place soon enough.. im goig to et a sewing machine today and ill be too busy learning to sew to get myself into edrama and **h4x3d** everyone off.

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A sewing machine? What are you? 90?

[Itachis_Widow]

Listen, I understand that you didn't have bad intentions. I've been saying that they do not matter. Good or bad.

You have to look at the situation logically. I read this entire thread and I find it odd that you don't understand fully what's going on.

Firstly, you asked for this. No one called you out and put blame on you. You brought all this attention to yourself and you should know that not everyone's going to handle you gently. Especially here. The way you worded your first post did come off kind of arrogant when you're talking about internetspeak.

Secondly, you can't ask for something and want the blame but only want people to blame you in a sweet way. You said "Blame me!" So people came in and did so. I think someone made a nice analogy about making a pizza and getting mad at it for being a pizza (these dam pizza references, I'm about to bring up color ). If you weren't up to people coming in here and being angry at you or just angry in general since they already were, you shouldn't have made this thread.

Thirdly, I get that you were were upset at the catish responces that should have been expected, but going off and expecting people to understand your sarcasm (that wasn't complete sarcasm, at least own up to your actions)  and not take things like "I love the hate!" seriously when they're already ticked off, wasn't smart on your part. Whether you wanted to or not that was baiting and the main reason alot of people got really upset. You were being a real jerk and I know that some part of you no matter how large or small, knows that as well.

Lastly, everyone has feelings. You see that the majority weren't expressing a real hate for you but a "disappointment" in your actions. You're sorry and everything and you were hurt and all that, but I can't stress anymore how you asked for that. If you were going to take the blame then you should have just taken it and let people say what they want to say. You were expecting something that isn't typical of this board and got angry about it.

Just know that most of us don't really hate you and that this conversation is going on because everyone's got an opinion and this is the place to give it. Some of us would really just like you to see where you went wrong there.

And yes the filters and the administration s*ck.

[gekko_man]

mods must not care anymore

[cidthekittyisfun]

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Kohikki wrote:
Because you're still doing it, Cid.
You apologized and that's great and everything, but you're still making posts about how people are so mean and nasty.
In fact, the last post you made was a list of examples of how people were nasty to you.
Just go ahead and read This

You can crab at me after you read that if you want.

But it's true.
Basically, you should have just left the thread after you apologized.
Leaving the thread would be a sign that you're truly sorry for it and don't feel the need to defend yourself because you know what you did is wrong.
Because all you're doing right now, from what I see, is looking for pity.
You say you're not but honestly, that's all I'm seeing.

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god, i give up with you! you obviously only read what you want to read!

i wanted to leave, i really was.. ok ok.. seriously im not asking for pity dude, so stop saying that ok? its annoying me.. have you not actually read all those times i said im sorry, ok so i did link some things.. yeah i did say "yeah i was flamebating but so where they" type comments.. im sorry kohikki.. i said iw as sorry but honestly dude hnestly, canyou not go back into this thread, and read other peoples comments and say to yourself "oh not one of those have any negativity towards cid.." because if you cant then thats great i wish i had your mentality..

i dont want pity, i dont want hate... i want you all to realized that ive already learned my ways, but noooo instead you and other people have to nitpick at what i say.. and its true... i dont want pity for saying you guys are being nitpickers..

i dont want it all, i realize what i did was wrong. but wtf? why is it because i stand up for myself its wanting pity its flamebaiting... im sorry but i feel like my appology is a waste now.. why should i bother with you..

god i was ready to let it go, but a few others kept pestering me... oh no am i taking pitty by saying that?

i dont want people tos tand up for me, and idont want people to hate me...


i dont get it kohikki, i really dont? what can i do to make things better? do you want me to tellou to fuuuuuudge off do you want me to kiss your **h4x3d**? do you want me tosay YAY EVERYONES HOULD BLAME ME BECAUSE IM WORTHLESS AND I SHOULD JUMP OFFA BRIDGE

waht kohkki? what do you want!?


do ou want me to write another long drong appology? is that it?

do you want me to feed your pet kittens?

wtf kohikki! im just trying to make amends with you and everyone i hate, i already said iw as wrong.. god..

[Itachis_Widow]

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tini_tunz wrote:

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

I've gotten hate for my font color.

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Well, it is an uglyass colour.

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Well smarty pants it was actually this color that got me the hate.

And your color is wayyyyy off. Also it isn't red, mod red. >_>

[duzitickle]

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cidthekittyisfun wrote:

dontworry though, none of you will have to worry about me, ill be leaving this place soon enough.. im goig to et a sewing machine today and ill be too busy learning to sew to get myself into edrama and **h4x3d** everyone off.

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OMG.
i was just thinking of making
a 12 oz mouse quilt today.
Oo
i dun have a sewing machine, though.
=\

p.s.  dont leave, lady.

Message Edited by duzicakes on 06-05-2008 04:29 PM

[Itachis_Widow]

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VashVSGoku wrote:

Have fun hating each other.../leaves thread 

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What about our date!!!

[Kohikki]

"and please dont think im upset, what i said abve and anything ive been saying since ive appologize, has not meant to hurt anyone.. im not flamebaiting, im not making excuses for my actions, ok maybe i am, but ive alwasy admited my wrongdoings.."

"i just want you and everyone else to realize i already said i was wrong, but nooooo people keep picking up on other stuff ive already appologized and admited i was wrong making it seem i never appoligzed.."


"dontworry though, none of you will have to worry about me, ill be leaving this place soon enough.. im goig to et a sewing machine today and ill be too busy learning to sew to get myself into edrama and **h4x3d** everyone off."


Cid, no matter how many times I read this, it still looks like you're looking for pity.

Do you not realize that every single time you do this you're still doing it?
Because that's exactly what you're doing.

You're still defending yourself and refusing to accept that you're at fault.
I don't know how much more clear I can make myself.
I know you apologized.
But every single time you respond to a message of mine, you're still doing it.

You're still playing the "Why won't you listen to me, I'm so innocent and didn't have any bad intentions!" game.


If you want this to end, you have to take responsibility for your actions and realize you're at fault.
Please, Please, Please understand this.


I'm done with this thread.
I'm sick of this game.
Maybe you'll realize what I'm saying, maybe not.
I'm tired of caring and I'm tired of your low opinions of everyone.

[Itachis_Widow]

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cidthekittyisfun wrote:

ok seriously, how is this what you all saying not flamebaiting? seriously someone explain this to me.

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There's a difference between dicussion and prodding people.

Saying "Cid you know you're dumb for making this thread and I dare you to say otherwise" is baiting.

[tini_tunz]

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

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tini_tunz wrote:

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

I've gotten hate for my font color.

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Well, it is an uglyass colour.

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Well smarty pants it was actually this color that got me the hate.

And your color is wayyyyy off. Also it isn't red, mod red. >_>

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It's only off because it was in my macro's from when I was a SwimFan, and I didn't feel like changing it.

[cidthekittyisfun]

im sorry im tooo upst tothe point im sobbing to read all of hwat you said, i will read it allbut right now i cant..

look, first off i was being logical, i was looking at this clearly. i DO understand now afte i made that appology what i ddi was wrong, i already said that.. i dont get what you guys keep griping at..

i dont understand, do you guys not read english? i know my grammaer isnt great but come on, im trying my best.. is it at least readable?


i know i asked for this, i know that it is more then i can handle,if you read the whole thread,w hy are you not realized that ive already said this stuff a million times?

i really do grasp what i did was wrong,i know i hurt and pissed off a lot of people..

but we cant let this go can we? you all say something that upsets me, then i have to say something back.. im trying not to get upset over this but its not working..


i give up... there is nothing i can say.. you all are still going to go at this and still tell me "oh why dont you realize whtyou did was wrong cid, just own up to your actions its your fault" eve though i already said its my fault..


sooo say what you want, each and everyone of you isnt worth this much time and effortok? look get pissy atme all you want,maybe i just should stop trying to make ammends.. becase its not working..


say im playing the innocent card, or whatever.. i dont care.. ill prolly get banned even though im trying my hardest not to..


but honestly, dont you al think your flamebaiting too?

[tini_tunz]

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

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cidthekittyisfun wrote:

ok seriously, how is this what you all saying not flamebaiting? seriously someone explain this to me.

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There's a difference between dicussion and prodding people.

Saying "Cid you know you're dumb for making this thread and I dare you to say otherwise" is baiting.

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Actually, that'd be outright flaming.

[Itachis_Widow]

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tini_tunz wrote:

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

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tini_tunz wrote:

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

I've gotten hate for my font color.

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Well, it is an uglyass colour.

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Well smarty pants it was actually this color that got me the hate.

And your color is wayyyyy off. Also it isn't red, mod red. >_>

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It's only off because it was in my macro's from when I was a SwimFan, and I didn't feel like changing it.

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Still, not, the, same, color. >_>

[Itachis_Widow]

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tini_tunz wrote:

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Itachis_Widow wrote:

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cidthekittyisfun wrote:

ok seriously, how is this what you all saying not flamebaiting? seriously someone explain this to me.

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There's a difference between dicussion and prodding people.

Saying "Cid you know you're dumb for making this thread and I dare you to say otherwise" is baiting.

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Actually, that'd be outright flaming.

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It's a double whammy, a flame and a bait.

[cidthekittyisfun]

"I'm tired of caring and I'm tired of your low opinions of everyone."

wow ok, how is that NOT flamebaiting? wow.. insulting kohikki...

dude, seriously, you dont think im sick of this? stop saying im taking pity IM NOT!!


i already said im sorry i already said im at fault.. ive said it all and i mean it..


whatever, youre not going to listen to what i say so im not going to bother.. whyshould i own up to my actionswhen none of you will listen to me and just sy im taking pity...


i can say HEY GUYS IM SORRY I KNOW IM AT FAULT

and ill STILl get "stop taking pity"


whatever, wehrs a mod when you need one? the only 2 admits to come in here didnt hel solve anything in fact made it worse..

im going to go find a mod, and they can deal with you all ok? because im tired of this BS... i already owned up to mya ctions and you know it..

[gekko_man]

everytime i read one of your posts in this thread it pisses me off, though i don't want in on this

why don't we just stop responding........just maybe this will all go away

i'm just saying this thread needs to stop

[Poppa_Rocks]

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gekko_man wrote:

everytime i read one of your posts in this thread it pisses me off, though i don't want in on this

why don't we just stop responding........just maybe this will all go away

i'm just saying this thread needs to stop b flaoted.

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fixd

[gekko_man]

no

[Itachis_Widow]

You gotta read my whole post. I didn't write that for nothing!

But I gotta agreed with Koh on this one. You are kinda doing the whole "woe is me" bit.

Not necessary. You're making it look like you're just getting so picked on when we're just stating the fact of what happened. I'm happy you apologized and I'm sad you're upset, but you apology turns into nothing when you couple it with "Why are you guys being so mean to me! *tear*" You're making it seem like the apology was forced out of you and the ONLY way we'll let up on you is if you grovle.

Not cool. That's just making everyone else look like a jerk and no ones being one.

This isn't baiting. I'm just talking to you. I'm not trying to get a negative responce out of you, actually it's quite the opposite.

But, if you see baiting as someone saying something that isn;t in your favor then I guess we're done. We'll never meet equal ground. Especially when you don't read my whole post.